Sunday, November 1, 2009

Dilema.

I am in a kinda fix! I need help people! I love writting (fact). The major reason I have a blog is to create an outlet. I hardly talk bout my feelings, instead I write them down. There's a lot of bloggable stuff happening in my life and I'll love to write bout them but there is a glitch, he knows bout my blog. We started out being friends and I innocently told him bout my blog and he reads my posts, but now he has become a major player in my love life and I cant update coz I know he'll read it. I dont know what to do. I'm thinking bout changing my blog address but I'm sure he'll find me and that will make me look like I've got sumtin to hide. Dont you think so? Or maybe I should just delete this blog and re-enter blogsville as anonymous? But then again, this is my blog and I wanna write what I want. So here is an appeal to 'Him'. Pls stop reading my blog. (ehen, I've said my own, dont say I didn't warn u o!). So blogsville, I need ur help, can anyone profer solution to my dilema?

15 comments:

  1. First! yay ok lemme go back n read!

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  2. Just write; he just has to live with it... at least, that's what my gf does. :D

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  3. Abeg write jare! its ur thoughts like u said abi? He should enjoy reading ur "mind" sef. I would if I were him.

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  4. i haven't been here in a while. sorry o! Didn't mean to not visit.

    Okay then I would say do what makes you comfortable sha. I know with you being out in the open and being real can be a tad uncomfortable in some ways but do what ultimately makes you happy.You and I both know he won't stop reading.

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  5. He def won't stop reading. I'll like to read my SO thoughts. He reads my blog too.

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  6. i can swear i left a meaningful comment after claiming first spot o, hmnnnnn, my enemies done follow me reach blogsville.

    anyways i feel u, cos i started bloggin as an outlet and now a couple of frnds have discovered my blog and read it, so i cant really be true to myself. We all know Dude wont stop readin it, but that might not be such a bad thing. Communication....

    If it bothers u much sha u cld start another blog and give old faithfuls like me the link, nes pas?:-)

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  7. He definitely won't stop reading. I can imagine it might be a tad uncomfy to be completely honest knowing he is reading.

    You can use it to you advantage tho'...tailor your post in such a way that you speak to him indirectly.

    If that is enough, you might have to change urls or something

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  8. Uncle stop reading, so sumptuous can blog freely

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  9. Even if you reenter he might still find your blog so I suggest just write as long as what you're writing is the truth and it's just how you feel he just has to deal with it lol

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  10. Truth is, no matter how much u tryna hide, he's gonna find out. Feel free to write wateva u want, if he has issues wt it......u guys can sort it out privately

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  11. if he is important u would want him to know whats up it u, like repressed one said, u can use it t speak to him indirectly my boo reads my blog and i know, if he isnt important, my dear open up another blog its not hard....., u can keep this one open and he wouldnt know uve left it

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  12. thanks for stopping by mine
    come again!!!!

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  13. Write oh, this is ur space, but write what you can defend when blogsville is not around to support you...:-)

    Happy New Year.

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  14. I know this is coming really late, sorry bout that. I have decided not to run away from my blog and if there's gonna be any running, it will be by HIM. Thanks guys for ur advice. Now I just need to put my thots in order and I'll be back.

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