Sunday, February 7, 2010

My Friends.

I woke up dis morning and for no particular reason, all i can think about are my friends. In uni, we were a group of 7 girls, we lived in d same hall, 5 of us studied the same course and the other 2 also studied the same course. We did everything together: ate together, played, fought, cried and laughed together, they were my support system and i could tell them anything on my mind, all i had to do was throw it open to the house. Well, fast foward to some 10 months after uni, we are all scattered all over Nigeria doing NYSC. I maintain contact with only 2 as the rest have gone AWOL. It just strikes me as funny coz we used to talk bout stuff we would do together in the future. Then again, they say 20 kids cannot play together for 20 years. *sighs*

11 comments:

  1. awwww....you know u can always call up the rest?

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  2. eeeya....u guyz might still reunite

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  3. Chai, but U don find them for Facebook?

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  4. that proverb at the end is so true, had a friend that stayed with me in my brother's house for a couple of months, fastforward 2 years havent heard from her in like a year. my family keeps asking if we fought, we just grew apart and i got tired of chasing a friendship the other party wasnt interested in.

    my point friendship usually comes easy but sometimes u have to work extra hard if u feel the person is worth it...

    Pele o this NYSC too shall pass. say amen!

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  5. @leggy, i was d only one doing the calling, so i stopped. @Rene, maybe, i hope. @Myne, problem with re-union is location. @Sk, we are all on fb, just seem to have grown apart. You know d kind of fb friends dat say nutin 2 each other. @Neo, Ameeeen, my sista, only u sabi say this NYSC is doing me strong thing. Lol. Frankly, i'm tired coz it feels like i'm imposing my self but i keep wondering how awkward it'll be if we jam at the mall or sumplace in future.

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  6. this nysc sef me sef don tire cant wait till june

    funny thing is i just heard that proverb for the first time on sunday from my aunt

    lost touch witha lot of close friends it happens

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  7. Yes o BBB, you are in d spirit. Wish we culd conjure up some majic and Voila! We're in june. I guess losing friends and making more friends is a part of life.

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  8. Aww this is kind of sad but relatable. Theres so many ways to communicate these days you guys should make the effort.

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  9. sumptous thats not nice even if i dont call u know that u are always on my mind

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  10. @lola, babes, u know u are one of the 2 i still speak with.

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